I've been thinking about today's topic a lot lately and I would love to hear your experiences and insight about it!
It seems to me that often when we jump on the raw food bandwagon, we attribute many things to it that it's not. I am a perfect example of this. I was very excited to do this because of alllllll the many fabulous things that were going to magically happen in my life if I just switched to raw.
Among other things, I was sure that the raw diet would:
1. Normalize my weight without my having to do anything else about it.
2. Give me back the skin of my youth, and when I say youth, I mean like when I was 1, because my skin decided to hate me not too many years after the age of 1.
3. Make every mysterious ache or pain I'd ever had over the years, disappear forever.
4. Render me completely immune to illness and disease.
5. Make my twin belly go away.
Does this sound familiar to anyone?
So what's the problem with all that positive thinking?
I'm all for positive thinking, but I think sometimes we expect way too much of this diet. We give it a go for a week, maybe a month, and when all those things above didn't happen in 30 days, we throw our hands up in the air and say, "This did not work for me." And then we move on to the next thing.
But here's the deal, friends. Well, my deal anyway. :-)
The Raw Diet is Not a Miracle!
There is simply nothing miraculous or stupendous about a diet that consists of raw fruits and vegetables. Nothing at all. *Strong opinion warning* - It's simply a return to the way nature intended for us to live.
By making a decision to only fuel our bodies with fresh ripe whole fruit and vegetables, we are giving our body what it was biologically designed to live on. Nothing mysterious or other-worldly about it.
Our bodies are the miracle, not the diet.
The only reason it feels miraculous to those of us who try it, is because our bodies and minds have been so polluted and perverted by the advances of civilization and man made technology, that as a species we are increasingly losing a lot of our innate instincts.
As a result, we have no idea how it even feels like to be somewhere close to a state of natural health.
So when our bodies start healing and working right again, we begin to have a glimmer of realization that it is not normal, nor an unavoidable byproduct of aging to have headaches several times a week, or slight achy pains in our joints. It is not normal to walk around constipated for days or weeks, and it's not normal to need a nap after eating.
These are a few of the not-really-scary things that can happen if we're pumping the wrong type of fuel in to our bodies, day in and day out. There is much more scary stuff out there and I see it every day and I'm sure you all do, too.
It Takes Time.
As for the several ailments I mentioned above, and the more serious illnesses that many people come into the raw diet having, yes, happily, changing our diet and lifestyle does usually bring about some pretty big physical changes.
For example,
1. My weight did normalize. However, I learned that fitness was a big part of this also. I also learned that it is just about as easy to gain weight on the raw food diet as it is lose weight!
2. My skin is getting better and better slowly. It isn't perfect on my face but I can say it's pretty much perfect everywhere else. Except my belly.
3. I don't get random pain in my joints anymore. (I used to when I ate cooked food.) I do get sports-related injuries if I'm not careful and smart. :D
4. I'm not completely immune to illness, but I rarely get sick - the last time I had a mild cold (which is the worst thing I've gotten in a year) was in January - and when I do, it seem to get very bad or keep me down for very long.
5. Twin Belly - Nuf said.
But we can't expect it to happen overnight, as much time as most of us have spent indulging in different bad habits. I believe patience is key here. And patience is a virtue that is difficult to cultivate if we're hoping for a miracle, but maybe a little easier to develop if we remember to hold the perspective that we're simply, gently taking steps toward a natural life.
Your thoughts?
Have you had expectations of the raw diet that have changed over time? Have you ever wanted it to the a miracle and it didn't turn out the way you hoped? Do you agree or disagree with me? :-)


21 rotten tomatoes:
I totaly agree with you. When I started going raw I thought that I would just drop the extra 15 os so pounds I wanted. Well it has not happened. I was eating a vegan diet before but not all raw and when I moved to raw I started eating a lot of things I hadn't in the past like nuts, seeds, and avacados. I for me this has prevented weight loss and I think my body needs a more 811rv diet. I also really enjoy reading your blog its a real motivator for me. O and I totaly admire that you posted that stomach picture!
Danieal
http://2rawsisters.blogspot.com/
I totally agree that it's our bodies that are miraculous. There's not a miracle waiting in the 19th banana you eat today or that basket of tomatoes sitting on the counter. Our bodies were created to restore themselves in the event of an assault as long as we are providing the right fuel for it to do its job.
I've also learned that it took years of abuse to get to where I am. I can't expect my body to heal everything over night. Some changes have came almost that fast, but many have taken much longer. I didn't enter this path with a whole lot of expectations. I was just sick and tired of not feel good and being exhausted all the time. I wanted to eat what would help me feel better. Raw fruits and greens were exactly what my body wanted.
Great blog!
I just found your blog today and am obsessed! In a non-creepy way of course! I'm very interested in the 811 diet and since I've been scrolling around your archives all day I'm now interested in the no-poo thing as well. I have to get going, but I will be back!!
*cough* Errr, umm, did you read my diary?
Oh my! What a topic! I agree, the unrealistic expectations of what raw food would do for me in "only 30 days! Eat whatever you want as long as it is raw!" did not deliver for me! I then dabbled in 811rv, but my heart wasn't in it -- I only wanted to be thin quick. In the end, it was the false advertisements for the "raw miracle" that lead me to believe that the whole thing was "crazy" and I went back to eating plain ol' vegan. Woops!
But I am back on -- with a renewed commitment to 811rv, and will see where I am at in 6 months!
Love your blog Sarah, always have!
Awesome post.
I think, while hearing so often about how much people's lives have changed and how amazing they are now, it's very easy to lose sight of reality.
And, of course, that can end up very discouraging - particularly if you don't see any such 'miracles' in your own life.
It's important to keep what you say in mind. So thank you.
i hear you!
loving your blog & the reminder to stretch my joints / move my ass if i want everything else to work right..
Hey Sarah!
Patience is not my friend! And I agree that people jump into raw expecting miracles and then fail because the miracle didn't happen as fast as they wanted it. Or it happened fast but their mentality was not cured and went back to eating SAD. Because they "missed" pancakes or something, food that made them think of their grannie on a sunday morning and brought comfort.
Something similar happens to me all the time, a person who always viewed food as a great part of their life will not be cured overnight.
The best cure is to detach ourselves from food and just view it as something to make us stomach stop growling :) it's more enjoyable that way and no emotional strings are attached. But it's difficult and takes time to build that mentality. I hope one day I'll achieve it. :)
I agree with you. It takes time and patience with ourselves. And exercise. And not too much fat.
XO
Pixy Lisa
Sarah- Here's a tidbit for you.... My family and I went on a vacation to Costa Rica few years ago. While there we went to some animal place (toucans in a cage, monkeys,etc.) There was a big monkey (sorry, don't know what kind)who had lived behind some bar in the jungle for years eating hamburgers the owners would either give her or she scavenged and she supposedly drank tons of beer. The owners of the bar wanted her gone as she was a belligerent drunk so that was how she came to this "zoo" type of place. She was still HUGELY overweight but was now being force fed her natural diet of fruits and greens. I asked how long she had been there and it was a year and a half. So in a year and a half of only eating her fruits and veggies she was still not back to her ideal weight. Just something I found interesting! Poor monkey! Claudia
Hi Sara with a "h"
You know who this is. hehe.
I like the fact you did a post on what the raw food diet is not. On another blog I read (Steve Pavlina), he too wrote about his experiences with a raw food diet, but I didn't "get it". After reading more of your blog, I now understand what a raw food diet entails.
Although I am still on a "conventional diet", I do try to eat more fresh fruits and vegetables. To me that's just common sense. White foods don't agree with me, so I stay away from as many of those as possible.
Great timing Sarah! I'm dealing with this issue with family and friends right now. My brother-in-law was diagnosed with stomach cancer last year. He had surgery to remove the tumor which had not spread and has just tried 811 for the last three months - although far from perfectly. He went in to check his "gastrin" levels recently-which can be an indicator that the stomach is not working properly- expecting them to have gone down dramatically because of the diet. Of course, they did not and he's now questioning the diet.
This is just one example of someone expecting miracles from the diet in a short time frame. There is so much more to health than diet-even if that is a big part of the picture.
I agree completely! And you can throw in emotional issues too - sometimes we expect some sort of magical button or wand and forget we have to do the work too :)
Sarah - this is such an important and spot on post (well ok, most of your postings are!!)
I went into the raw diet with the same expectations..only to realize that what we put in our minds is just as important as what we put in our bodies - it is all about making higher choices - I have seen people eat super crappy food and glow because they nourish their minds - and people that are super healthy eaters that obsess about it all and don't glow...so, I believe the highest food choices are whole, ripe, raw, organic and fresh - however, it is only one piece of the health puzzle (as 811 indicates)..thanks for putting it out there for others - you are awesome!
Thanks so much for that post. I try not to go into things with expectations, but sometimes it's difficult to be that way. I have very much enjoyed your blog and appreciate you being a light to those of us just beginning and learning.
Danieal, that stomach pic gave me some gray hairs. LOL! I look forward to hearing if 811rv type diet brings you to your goals!
Sarah, you are a perfect example of how to ease beautifully into this lifestyle! Okay none of us are perfect but you know what I mean. :-)
Flipflopmama, I like your name. I live in flipflops all year round if I can. :) Thanks for reading!
lifein811, you know the funny thing is - lots of people (including myself) do see lots of amazing things in just a short 30 days. I just don't think that's long enough to really wrap your head and your body around this lifestyle and realize what it means for you in the long term. :-)
Dawson, I'm glad you enjoyed it and yes, it IS difficult reading posts like that sometimes, I agree! They used to inspire and frustrate me at the same time.
qito, yeah i always feel better if I'm moving, too. :)
Sandy, I agree...food is such an emotional thing. I still enjoy my food greatly so I wouldn't say I'm detached from it - but it is a different kind of pleasure, not the crazy addicted feeling it used to be!
Lisa, I think you just summed up in 1 short sentence what I tried to say in a long rambly blog post! Hehe
Claudia, that is a very, very interesting tidbit! I'm so curious about it. It's making me think a lot. Hmm! Thanks for sharing that.
Barbara with a B (j/k) - I read and enjoy Steve Pavlina a lot too. I even wrote him a couple of times while he was going through his 30 day trial. I think he did something tremendous, but based on personal experience I also do think it takes more than 30 days to figure out if something big like a dietary change is gonna work for your health in the long term. I'm glad to hear recently that he's back to a raw diet, and I'm glad that my post made sense to you!
Via, so sad about your BIL :( I hope he will keep on this path!
Ecodea, what?! We have to work too?!!! I wish I had a magic wand and could conjure up magic wands for the whole world! Too bad it doesn't work like that huh?! :)
Joy, good to hear from ya! That's a very interesting (and I think, apt) observation about ppl on crappy diets with good mental/emotional health, looking wonderful. I really do believe there's something to that.
new2raw81, I'm glad you've enjoyed my blog! It's probably just about impossible for anyone to completely lose all expectations - after all, we have to have a pressing reason to make as drastic of a change as this right? But I think the key here is to drop the unrealistic expectations! :-)
Oh yeah, thought the weight would drop and drop and drop w/o doing anything. I learned no, I can still gain weight (mmm....nuts...) and I still have muscles crying to be moved and stretched! But so much good has come from this journey, just like you also noted, including weight loss, and skin improvements, attitude improvements, more energy, more desire to eat healthy and be healthy. It's so easy (I'm generalizing here) to throw our arms up and give up on anything, but esp diets b/c we wimp out (i.e. I'm not seeing instant results; it's too hard; it's not convenient; etc). And the raw food lifestyle is no different. Some sacrifices are made, it's work, it's dedication but the payoff is HUGE! That is the motivating factor or one of them.
I believe what you say but I also believe that the original food we are supposed to eat is imbued with the original intent by which it was created with. Therefore it can work miracles on many levels.
Heidi, no kiddin' about the payoff! I wish I could bottle up how good I feel most of the time, and sell it on the streets. Nah, I'd give it away for free!
Sam, I do see what you're saying - I guess obviously there is something different about the way raw foods affect our body vs cooked right...
Sarah,
If I was in an auditorium and heard you speak these words out loud, I would probably have stood up and clapped very loud! "Bravo, bravo, Sarah!" I would call out!
Yes, it's not the food, it's our bodies responding to the natural food we are finally feeding it!
I still believe that given enough time, raw foods can help my body heal just about anything that has gone wrong from years of not eating the way nature intended.
I'm also going to believe that your twin belly will one day disappear and you will be sharing the miracle with all of us here on your blog! :-)
Lots of love to you,
Wendi
XOXOXO
Yeah Wendi! You bet I'll be posting pictures of my flat smooth belly all over the internet...when it is flat and smooth! :-) Okay maybe not but I'll def be bragging about it. :)
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