Tuesday, May 06, 2008

The Number One Secret to Success on the Raw Vegan Diet.

Since I first began thinking about giving this lifestyle a try several years ago, the raw diet has exploded all over the the internet, the world and my screen.

There are new websites and blogs popping up every day from people who are extremely enthusiastic about changing their health and lives and helping others do it too. I'm grateful for every single one of you lovely people because you make me feel less alone. Because of this information explosion, the raw diet is slowly beginning to go mainstream.

However, as wonderfully common now as it is to see someone else hopping onto the bandwagon every day, it is unfortunately just as common to see someone fall off it at the same rate or higher. In fact, I think I know more people who "gave that raw thing a try, but it didn't work/was too hard" than I know of people who have thrived on it for several years or more.

I have found that there are several "secrets" to sucessfully sticking to this diet, and today I will share what I believe to be the no. 1 reason why people generally have trouble when trying out the raw vegan diet for the first time.

Disclaimer: Y'all already know I'm no expert. These are just my personal observations from my own experiences as well as reading around on different websites/books and talking to different friends. So nobody sue me, ok? :)

My Story:
When I first made an attempt to fall off the turnip truck (haha, but c'mon, admit it, there are those of you out there who think this about me) - I had very little understanding of how it all worked. I read a few of the big websites out there at the time - I was inspired by the lovely before & after mug shots of everyone, and the weird but possibly delicious recipes shared on there.

But I felt lost. I'd just abolished in my head the old SAD food pyramid where meat, dairy, grains and fats had their own personal 5 star rooms on the top floor penthouses. Being a vegan for the last few years, I'd actually kicked meat and dairy out of their rooms awhile back and done some renovating already. But that wasn't as scary, as grains simply became my new foundation, heavily supplemented by cooked fats. And now I had to construct a whole new pyramid where all of those were just...gone.

I had no clue where to begin. What was I supposed to eat at each meal? Was there a rhyme or reason to what I decided to eat each day? Should I just eat whatever I felt like, whenever I felt like? Should I just not bother to construct a new food pyramid?

I tried doing it that way for awhile, but the lack of structure really bothered me. I had no idea where I was getting the bulk of my calories from, I had no idea if it was okay to eat nuts as a meal, was I getting enough greens, and how much fruit was okay to eat anyway?

None of the books or sites that I was reading explained the basic nutrition principles that I was looking for adequately, if at all. It seemed that the no. 1 mantra going around generally was "Just eat whatever you want in any combination...as long as it is uncooked." This was fun for awhile, but soon, I became increasingly overwhelmed with a growing fear and confusion.

I knew I couldn't do this forever. My gut instincts told me that it didn't make sense to just eat whatever, whenever. There had to be some simple law of nature that was right in front of my eyes that I was missing. It had to be easier than this, you know?

And besides, I was tired of making complicated (for me) recipes all the time. And my thoughts about those ran like this: If I'm making, say, this raw lasagna that is supposed to imitate the look, feel and taste of real lasagna, but obviously it is not getting the same nutrients or ratio of nutrients as real lasagna with real meat and cheese, then how do I know if it is really nutritious for me to consume? At least with meat and cheese I had some sort of false comfort zone, knowing that most people eat meat and cheese for the "protein" and the "healthy fats".

I started to panick as serious doubts arose about whether I was getting proper nutrition. I began to read on the internet about people who had failed - and failed dangerously - on the raw food diet. There were people who lost too much weight, lost hair, and there were those who ran into serious health problems that they did not have BEFORE raw foods. I began to freak out about getting enough B12, and then, I fell off the bandwagon. Repeatedly. For almost 2 years.

What brought me back to it again? Well, I say this ad nauseum on my blog, so let me give you a moment to roll your eyes first, and okay, now I'll say it yet again - Finding Natural Hygiene and the high fruit, low fat diet.

I started reading, reading, reading. I liked what I was reading. It made sense to me, gave me some grounding, dissolved my nutrition fears. Going back to nature. Oh...diet isn't the only aspect of health. Sunshine and clean water and sleep and oh, shoot, apparently I'm gonna need to get off my big behind and start exercising too. Emotional and spiritual health? Working on it. Water fasting for healing? Hmm. HMM!!! What would I eat if I was stranded in the jungle... not raw lasagna, that's for sure. What is human anatomy closest to...oh, apes. What do apes eat? Oh...fruit. OH! And light bulbs started going off in my head. Ding ding ding.

So you see, for me - it took very firm grounding and understanding of what constituted a healthy lifestyle, to be able to let go of the nagging fears, doubts and excuses holding me back. I began building my new food pyramid, this time, with fruit as my foundation. This was the easiest, simplest food pyramid I'd ever constructed. And it wasn't just about the food this time. Plus, I noticed that the people on this path were really thriving, active and healthy looking, which was attractive to me.

Secret #1
You first need a deep understanding about building health and doing a raw diet healthfully, to get rid of any confusion or fear holding you back, and then you will be able to truly focus your efforts on succeeding long term on this diet.

I see people deciding to try the raw diet before they ever read any nutrition/health books (or at least, very few). To many it is just another weight loss diet among the thousands of weight loss diets out there. When actually, it isn't a weight loss diet at all.

Many are going straight from SAD to low fat raw and that is sort of like jumping off a diving board when you don't know how to swim yet. It sounded good, they drank a couple of green smoothies, ate 2 apples a day, and found it wasn't working for them.

It didn't work because there was no deep or real understanding about how to build health from ground zero. I say all this not to be arrogant but because I have been there myself and it wasn't a fun place to be. It is difficult to wade through all the info out there and figure out how to make this thing work. Trust me, I know.

If you are new and you decided on a whim to try raw, you'd likely give up and run away screaming bloody murder because it IS scary and overwhelming when you don't have all your questions answered yet and there isn't any kind of food pyramid in your head to work with.

Obviously this "secret" is not the only factor, but I think it is the biggest factor for people who are relatively new to learning about the raw diet. I have a few more secrets I want to write about, so stay tuned, but in the meantime I'd love to hear from you guys - long timers, please share your secrets with us, and newbies, I'd like to know your thoughts!

For those of you who are new, I recommend reading these books and websites. They helped me so much and I hope they will help you too!
The China Study
80/10/10 brief FAQ
The 80/10/10 Diet
Raw Food Explained
Natural Hygiene

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Autumn said...

Oh Girl, yes! All this was a biggie for me too.

I had been reading about raw for the last 9 years. Just around a few books a year, sometimes more, & eventually stuff online too. Well after some time I still didn't feel confidant, because the information just wasn't quite complete (or maybe just not written well) enough for me to know how to be truly successful. But already, back then, firmly entrenched, my view of cooked was that it wasn't optimal in the least.

After making my first attempt (when I was 20 I stayed 100% & very simply raw for 4 months), I made a friend (whom I've lost touch with) who cured herself of terminal cancer in her late 30's. Then she had two beautiful children around about in her mid 40's (she said something like, there was no blood, no pain, & the labors only lasted 30 minutes!). She was 50+ when I briefly knew her & looked like she was 20 something.

Whoa.... what was my point? Oh yeah, that family ate very simply... but after like, 5 more years passed I started to come in contact with all the insane marketing hype. Which did nothing to give me a deep or real understanding! So I got thinkin I could not do it because I didn't want to, & could not, get into all the crazy recipes & superfoods ($$) which had started to sound, like, necessary.

So yeah, after a few more failed attempts (usually between 4-6 months long & eating simply 100% ~ fruits & greens, usually dumpster dived stuff, but def. not enough calories) I was still VERY interested in it. But I didn't think it was for me (although I stayed pretty high raw most of the time). That is until I finally read Dr. Graham's book & started to learn about Natural Hygiene more & more thoroughly. Learning to expand my raw lifestyle focus beyond just the diet too.

I have a long ways to go, but I am sooooo thankful that I'm getting to try raw again, after pretty much totally giving up that ideal, & feeling sooooo good about it too. Feeling supported by so many wonderful people online & so clear about the science & how all the lifestyle factors work together so nicely.

SO come to find out (again, as my initial intros to raw were all very simple & even cheep to do) that I don't have to buy lots of fancy equipment & mail order nuts & super foods....YAY!

I get to fall in love (more so) with simple fruits & greens & sunshine & movement. Everything is balanced & this is my first raw attempt that I have ever seen positive improvements with my body/skin/mind. YaY!

Thanks again for blogging Sarah! Even though we don't know each other, you've truly been there for me in so many ways. Hope you don't mind all my long comments! Your blog is just my fav & such an inspiration.

Much Love

Harmony said...

Wonderful post!
Of course, I agree with you 100%. I ran into those exact problems, too, and once I did enough reading and research, it finally fell into place. Hooray for fruit!

Melissa said...

Dear Sarah,

I am just totally in love with your thoughts and blog. You are one of the most genuine, inspiring, and helpful bloggers out there. Thank you so, so much!

I've been seriously looking into 811rv and also natural hygiene, since the "typical" raw foods look yummy, but take too much work, and just aren't that "normal". Part of this for me was simplicity-which raw lasagna and things are not! They also aren't what we would eat if we were living in nature without all of our fancy kitchen utensils. I haven't gone raw yet, but I have definitely started adding simple veggies and fruits to my meals, and as snacks. It's so much easier just to eat nuts or fruit, rather than trying to make raw ice cream. I realized, it also stresses me out when I can't just throw together a meal and enjoy it.

I'm looking forward to your other secrets!!

Love and hugs,
Melissa

forever*rrraw said...

Sarah, I can see that you're light years ahead of most when it comes to taking natural hygiene to heart, sharing its essence with heart and soul, and with your usual perspicuity. Your reason "why". Now, there's the ticket. With the peace of love in my heart, I can follow my bliss - naturally, spontaneously, healthfully - as I would if I were living in a tame jungle. I love myself enough to secure the best means possible to perpetuate my health and vitality and serenity for as long as that is possible and desirable. The conceptual, emotional, spiritual framework best suited to this endeavor is natural hygiene. Not someone's idea of natural hygiene, but the principles and practices of natural hygiene understood through the light of reason with genuine appreciation and reinforced through daily practice with tender loving care.

This is the perspective I use to stay on track with 811rv.

Warm regards,
Christopher

Sarah said...

Thanks for your thoughts, guys!

Melissa, you'll have to keep me updated on your transition! :)

Anonymous said...

First of all, let me commend you on your FANTASTIC blog! I just LOVE it! You demonstrate deep wisdom and your sense of humor is awesome. Your writing abilities are truly outstanding. Thank you so much for being here!

For me, knowledge about 811 and natural hygiene has not helped me at all. I have been intensely studying the subject for 5 years. I desperately want to become 100% raw, but am struggling miserably with a war going on inside me with these powerful cravings for cooked food. And I am losing. I'll eat raw for a day or week, then fall off the wagon with cooked vegan food for many months at a time. I am not content with simply increasing my fruit intake, as I have done. I DESPERATELY want to be 100%.

Just thought I'd let you know that knowledge has not worked for me (and therefore perhaps others). I don't know what will work for me. I hope I find out soon.

Thanks for listening.

Warm regards,
Elizabeth

Terry in the Keys said...

Sarah,

Ditto to what Autumn said! My story is very similar and covers about 30 years of research. Each time, my research lead me to better information until I found 811rv and raw finally is working for me!

I also love your blog and check twice/day to see if there are any new posts or comments to read. I can't believe how similar some of our (including commenters) stories are. I'm in the process of regaining my health after going back and forth with different types of raw (and SAD inbetween times)and learning what hadn't worked with each raw attempt. I'm convinced that 811rv is what I was looking for during my years of research.

Thanks for all you are doing with this blog!

Anonymous said...

Hi Sarah,
I found your blog (through a homeschooling forum) about the same time I came across the raw "diet". I don't label myself a raw foodist, but I eat ALOT of raw food. I've only been doing this for two months. My skin has cleared, I realized how dehydrated I was, I've lost 9 lbs.

Just wanted to comment, from my experience, just as much hype can surround raw food diets as the South Beach diet. It is so easy to become completely overwhelmed and my shopping list can suddenly be very concentrated (nuts, dried gogi berries, nuts, grains for soaking/sprouting, nuts) that the actual fruit and veggies can start to take a back seat. I begin to think this is too much, I don't want to wait 4 days before I can eat that raw bread that needed soaking, sprouting and dehydrating - so I'm just gonna stick that frozen pizza in the oven. I keep having to remind myself to keep it simple. And it doesn't have to be an all or nothing way to eat.

Love reading your blog!

Sarah said...

(((Hugs))) to you Elizabeth, I hope you find it soon too! Emotional barriers were, for me and others that I know, huge issues too. I was talking more about newbies who just found out about raw who haven't had time to learn anything about it yet before jumping right in. Hope that makes it clearer.

Terry, thanks for sharing your story! It's so great to connect with more and more people who are going through this with me.

Ana said...

Hiya Peach! Great entry! I completely agree on getting the knowledge behind "true" Natural Hygiene. I feel fortunate that I didn't fall into "gourmet" rawfoodism and really really glad that Doug was one of the first Hygienists I met.

For me, the most challenging part of adopting Natural Hygiene is wrapping my brain around the principles of NH, since from the perspective of my "medical mentality" enculturation, NH principles seem so counterintuitive! So, it has taken me an incredible amount of time coming to UNDERSTANDING what I'm learning and accepting as my new worldview.

Still, as challenge and frustrating as it is, this new learning is a source of incredible insight and enthusiasm. Daily, I experience awe-inspiring epiphanies that help to propel me forward and keep me seeking more knowledge and the all-important certitude that I/We are on the right track. Thanks for opening this topic. It is an important one! (I think I might expand on this subject on my blog! ; ) .....ana xxoo

Sarah said...

Thanks, Ana! Will be interested to see your thoughts!

Brandi said...

Hello! This is a great blog full of inspiring information and stories about 811. I actually just bought Graham's book and while it makes complete sense to me (I really want to clear my persistent cystic chin acne), I am struggling with issues I don't see mentioned much anywhere else.

I don't understand how to incorporate this into my everyday life once I start. In other words, how does one go out to eat with friends anymore? How does one go out for drinks at the company party, etc? Do you always carry a purse full of bananas with you just in case some situation you aren't prepared for arises?

I am just scared that I will start this and it will be great at home, but the "exclusion" it will create in social situations sounds frustrating and tiresome. Any advice?

Sarah said...

Brandi,

Thank you for your comment! You asked a great question, and I'd like to give it a little attention in a blog post sometime this week. I'll let you know when it's posted.

Love your blog, btw, you're very talented!

Anonymous said...

well.. it's like I knew!

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